Are you a moderator of a small or giant online group?
Here are some helpful references for you! Moderating can be a fulfilling task or it can be a tiresome chore. We hope these help you make your group site the best it can be!
http://www.10e20.com/blog/2009/04/30/social-networking-101-basic-tips-for-online-and-offline-social-networking/
http://www.theadminzone.com/
http://www.well.com/confteam/hosting.html
http://www.wikihow.com/Moderate-an-Online-Community
http://www.ojr.org/ojr/stories/050623mallasch/
And for fun, may we suggest a very funny book about life as an online moderator (you could replace the word vampire fan with your subculture site and I bet it rings just as true) Will the Vampire People Please Leave the Lobby? (True Adventures in Cult Fandom) (Paperback) from Amazon.com